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For
many years -- actually, for my whole life -- I have been a keen
observer of human behavior. I have watched decisions that people
make. I have noticed the choices that they select in their lives.
One's decisions and choices reflect what is important in one's
life. They are clear indicators of what each individual values.
The
following questionnaire is to assist you in becoming more aware of what
you value in your life. Thoughtfully answering the following
brief six (6) questions will present you with a) a clearer idea of how you operate in the world; b) of what your actions can tell you about what has truly been important to you; and -- perhaps, most important of all -- of what you can change, if you find a reason to do so!
AWARENESS QUESTIONNAIRE
To
get a clearer picture for yourself of what you value, and what has
importance for you, print off this article and answer the following six
(6) questions for yourself. I have left space for you to include
your own answers.
1. What is important to you? What do you value?
Typical responses that I have been given when I have asked these questions of various people include the following: -- my health -- my family -- my profession
-- my animals
-- the ecology
Breaking down "health" into its components, some people include
physical health; others, mental health; and, still others, refer to
spiritual health.� Some include all three.
2. Exactly how much money you spend each money on your
-- mental-emotional health
$_______
-- physical/sexual
health
$_______
-- spiritual health
$_______
3. Write down how much of the 43,200 minutes -- or 720 hours -- each month you invest in your
-- mental-emotional healthï
_____min/hr
-- physical/sexual health
_____min/hr
-- spiritual
health
_____min/hr
Some
examples of things you might be doing to promote each area follow.
To promote your mental-emotional health, you could read self-help
articles or books; you could attend a self-help class; you could spend
time creating and utilizing affirmations. To increase your
physical health, you could spend routine time exercising, you could
take vitamins regularly; you could cook your own whole-food meals; you
could insist on the most-nutritious sources of food. To advance
your spiritual health, you could meditate or do self-hypnosis daily;
you could take personal-growth classes; you could attend your favorite
spiritual service.
4. If you said that your health was important to you, do these figures confirm and reflect this to be so?
5.
Now, complete the following table with
approximate time-amounts and money-amounts that you spend
each month on the following:
Min/Hr. Dollars
a. entertainment
_____
_____
b. wasting time/avoiding doing something
_____ _____
c. purchasing/playing with
toys
_____ _____
d. destructive habits (nicotine use,
eating junk food, using recreational
chemicals, gambling,
etc.
_____ _____
When you answer this, what do you notice?
In
conducting a poll containing the above questions with a group of 362
persons, the results were eye-opening. The majority (234) of
those polled who reported that they value, and find importance in,
their health were spending less than 20% of their time and/or their
money on creating and maintaining good health. They reported that
they still spent money and time on entertainment and toys. They
also reported that they still used time nonproductively avoiding doing
things in their lives.
So,
they had the resources they could have devoted to their
emotional/mental and physical and spiritual health. They chose
differently.
6.
What about you? Are you acting consistently with what you say you
value? Or were your results similar to those of the persons
polled?
If
you found that you are being consistent -- GOOD for you! You
deserve to give yourself a heart-felt pat on the back ... and keep on
putting your resources on that which you recognize is important to you!
You are on the right track!
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